Faithful

Today I am grateful that my husband is hardwired for faithfulness. His Myers-Briggs describes him as a pillar of society, and he brims with integrity and unwavering loyalty. What a gift that is.

When couples experience infidelity, the injured party usually wonders, "what did I do?" Even in a "bad" relationship, the choice to respond with unfaithfulness is just that, a choice. Having marital issues does not need to result in infidelity, and blaming the spouse for your own unfaithfulness is scapegoating.

I want to have a marriage that is more than just faithful, I want it to be full of mutual joy. But I am grateful for this bedrock of fidelity that makes trust and vulnerability possible. Thank you Roger.